Monday, January 27, 2020
That it is possible
Saturday, January 25, 2020
...no more
"Seek to know no more". (Macbeth 4.1.118)
I am purposely taking this great quote out of context and applying it in a way that moves me at this point in my life.
Seeking to know more is human; it's fun and it can encourage growth and development. But as with everything, there is a limit, and there are times when being with a situation as is, is wiser than seeking to know more.
Knowing, seeking, questioning must be balanced by being, otherwise we risk not being fully present in our lives.
I find this particularly applicable to when we're faced with difficult life circumstances. Our first impulse is to seek to know why things are happening to us. We want someone or something to blame, even if it's just ourselves. This approach may yield insight and understanding, and maybe some ways to prevent future distress. Yet, pushed past a certain point, it becomes self defeating.
After a amount of questioning, it's no longer helpful to keep asking why. Rather, it is more beneficial to be with whatever is happening, to feel it and own it, and have faith and patience, trusting that a way forward will reveal itself from there.
Friday, January 24, 2020
To " make good of bad, and friends of foes”
Wednesday, January 22, 2020
Happy Birthday to my mom!
https://youtu.be/qaf-Wu_bH04
Peace
Tuesday, January 21, 2020
Power
In this quote from King Lear, Shakespeare makes us distinguish between two kinds of power: the kind of power which stands in its own right, through its own virtue; versus that which can only stand because it is borne, or allowed to continue by those who are made to suffer by it.
I see this quote as being applicable in a wide range of contexts, from socio-cultural, to political and economic; but here, I want to bring it down to the personal level.
I am lucky enough to know a few people who I would call truly powerful in the positive sense of the word. What makes them so is their humility and personal integrity, their lived experience, their love, empathy and compassion, and their ability to stay open and sensitive despite difficulties.
On the other hand, I've also been in situations, and have seen others close to me in situations where they felt oppressed by someone who held power over them; the kind of power that draws its strength not from the person who wields it, but from the victims who allow it to continue to manifest.
People in the first category of power enable and empower others to become their best; while people in the second are enabled by others, mainly those they oppress.
I love how Shakespeare brings these distinctions into focus, allowing us to look at relationships with more awareness and understanding. Of course, most relationships don't fit neatly into one category or the other, but combine elements of both. Still, I find it useful to think about things in this light, and I hope you do too.
I will leave you with this one question I have been asking myself since reading Shakespeare's lines: what kind of power dynamics am I a part of (at different levels), and which do I want to continue to enable?
Peace
Saturday, January 18, 2020
NYC: pics from Friday
NY Public Library
Bow Bridge, Central Park
Sena, after she was done with the photo shoot at Marie Claire. She will be featured in the April issue.
Peace
Shakespeare garden, Central Park
Whatever life presents us with, may we retain our capacity to be astonished and moved by the beauty around us. Whatever else we may suffer, if we can do this, our hearts will remain whole.
More about our day trip to NYC to come.
And, I did very well on my Physics test. Thank you for rooting for me!
Peace
Wednesday, January 15, 2020
Praxis II and Marie Claire!
Then, on Friday, Sena and I are going to NYC. She has been contacted by the fashion magazine Marie Claire and invited down for a photo shoot! They are doing a story on young women activists, and Sena is one of three (I think) young women they are profiling. She is super excited, and I am super excited! They will be providing outfits, shoes, and probably stylists, and that's about all we know, but it sounds like a lot of fun. While she's at the photo shoot, which will be about 5 hours, I plan to go walk in central Park and maybe check out some cafes / bookstores in the area. It will be a nice reward after the stress associated with the exam.
So that's what's going on. Now, I'm going back to my equations.
Peace
Friday, January 10, 2020
Philippe de Champaigne - A great reminder: Our time is short
What comes to my mind when I look at this paining is fragility, transience, beauty; also, the lack of significance, in an absolute sense, of any and everything, and yet, in a relative sense, the incredible importance of each and every ordinary moment of our lives.
This painting motivates me to get over whatever holds me back, do my best to appreciate life as is, and contribute what I can towards creating goodness and beauty in the world.
I hope you enjoy it.
Peace
Sunday, January 05, 2020
Farmy videos from December
The cows and horse:
https://youtu.be/cD_gGYgGWfM
The ducklings, and a chicken:
https://youtu.be/bUlZXvFZfVc
Peace
Wednesday, January 01, 2020
Happy New Year!
Peace



