"...blaming and arguing never help us and only create a wider gap between us. Only understanding, trust, and love can help us change and grow."
So let's be generous and open, and let's forgive ourselves and those who have hurt us. Let's trust ourselves that we can do better, and let's trust them too.
Let's live with an open heart knowing we'll be hurt again, and doing our very best not to hurt others. There is no place in this for blame. Just being willing to learn, to feel it all, to contribute and give the best of ourselves always. What else is there to do?
Peace
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That's a great book. I often think about whathe says on just being present to someone and listening to what they have to say--- without defending yourself or even offering your thoughts. In the moments when I can remember to do this (especially with the kids) it is incredibly helpful.
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